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Tuesday, 17 February 2009
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Autism Night Before Christmas
by Cindy Waeltermann
Twas the Night Before Christmas
And all through the house
The creatures were stirring
Yes, even the mouse
We tried melatonin
And gave a hot bath
But the holiday jitters
They always distract
The children were finally
All nestled in bed
When nightmares of terror
Ran through my OWN head
Did I get the right gift
The right color
And style
Would there be a tantrum
Or even, maybe, a smile?
Our relatives come
But they don't understand
The pleasure he gets
Just from flapping his hands.
"He needs discipline," they say
"Just a well-needed smack,
You must learn to parent..."
And on goes the attack
We smile and nod
Because we know deep inside
The argument is moot
Let them all take a side
We know what it's like
To live with the spectrum
The struggles and triumphs
Achievements, regressions...
But what they don't know
And what they don't see
Is the joy that we feel
Over simplicity
He said "hello"
He ate something green!
He told his first lie!
He did not cause a scene!
He peed on the potty
Who cares if he's ten,
He stopped saying the same thing
Again and again!
Others don't realize
Just how we can cope
How we bravely hang on
At the end of our rope
But what they don't see
Is the joy we can't hide
When our children with autism
Make the tiniest stride
We may look at others
Without the problems we face
With jealousy, hatred
Or even distaste,
But what they don't know
Nor sometimes do we
Is that children with autism
Bring simplicity.
We don't get excited
Over expensive things
We jump for joy
With the progress work brings
Children with autism
Try hard every day
That they make us proud
More than words can say.
They work even harder
Than you or I
To achieve something small
To reach a star in the sky
So to those who don't get it
Or can't get a clue
Take a walk in my shoes
And I'll assure you
That even 10 minutes
Into the walk
You'll look at me
With respect, even shock.
You will realize
What it is I go through
And the next time you judge
I can assure you
That you won't say a thing
You'll be quiet and learn,
Like the years that I did
When the tables were turned......
Monday, 01 December 2008
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VH1 New Wave One-Hit-Wonders:
The Buggles - Video Killed the Radio Star
Big Country - Big Country
Devo - Whip It!
Bow Wow Wow - I Want Candy
M - Pop Music
Talk Talk - It's My Life
Wall of VooDoo - Mexican Radio
Falco - Der Kommissar
Modern English - I Melt With You
Gary Numan - Cars
A-ha - Take on Me
Saturday, 25 October 2008
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I took the kids (or they took me?!) to see High School Musical 3 yesterday. Pretty light on the plot I enjoyed the singing and dancing numbers, and there were many of them, plus any excuse to have movie popcorn is a good one.
I have been having trouble sleeping all week. I don't know what the problem is, but I wake up at least once and lie there awake forever. It's awful! R was out of town the first part of the week so when he came on Wednesday I thought maybe tonight it will be better. Unfortunately, I was awake again, just not alone! It's almost worse when there's someone who IS sleeping, next to you. Thursday was the worst of all. A had woken up when I checked on her before I went to bed & wanted me to re-start her sleepytime CD, "Wiggles Lullaby." I also put the new humidifer in our room to see if that helped us wake up feeling any less yukky in the head in the morning. But, when I woke up, as usual - I heard -- the CD over the baby monitor, the humidifier puffing, the cat snoring, and then R's Blackberry started buzzing!! So, I was really hoping last night would be THE NIGHT.
But, I heard this kind of muffled boom and woke up and realized everything was pitch black and quiet. The power had gone out! Well that jarred me awake b/c what if it didn't come back on and the house got cold? I nudged R and told him the power had gone out and he said, "OK."
Then at some point E came in our room to see what was going on, then a little after 6:30 A started screaming, when I went in there she said 'You forgot to turn my night light on." She wanted to get up and I said that's fine but it is cold and there's no light and no TV and *I* am going back to bed and you need to be quiet! Nice Mommy.Didn't stay in bed a whole lot longer after that, got up and had some coffee and that helped me feel a little better. I was in a really bad mood from Yet Another night of not good sleep. Even though the power was back on the cable was out so I read yesterday's newspaper, chilled out, and read Harry Potter some with E.
R suggested that we all go out to lunch since he was volunteering at the homeless shelter during dinnertime tonight so we went to the "family sports pub," where I had the teriyaki chicken salad that I just love. The teriyaki chicken is sooo good, it has this really firm, really tangy coating on the chiken pieces that is so good. It must be realllly bad before because it tastes so good.
When we got home A reminded me that we needed to watch the "Fourth Wise Man" video that the lady who is directing the church Christmas play had loaned us - before tomorrow! So I put that in and kind of dozed through it but A and I watched it. Then, I actually did fall asleep until E came to see if I wanted to read Harry Potter with him (we're on book 5). Yeah, I'd love to jump up from a dead sleep and read to you! Ack! So I lazed around on the sofa a little longer then got up and checked to see if the kids were interested in going to Trunk or Treat. E was not but A was over the moon at the idea.
Got her dressed in her "pink pirate" costume and she looked soooo cute. I snapped some pictures of her before we left then we stopped at the store in case we needed candy to give out, too, and drove to the church that was doing the Trunk or Treat. We ended up not needing the candy, they had about 8 vehicles set up which were thematically decorated (pink flamingoes, Marines, UNC, for example) and you went around to them and got candy. There were also some (difficult!) games and a bouncy castle. A had a great time!
We drove over to Mom & Dad's so they could see her in her costume. Dad was just enchanted and also gave us each a mini Kit Kat and a couple to take home to E and R. I had suggested picking up Wendy's for dinner and then A found a coupon for a free Frosty in her treat bag so she was so excited. Unfortunately as I looked at it I noticed that it was not valid until 11/1. At first I told her I'd get her one anyway, beause I knew how excited she'd been about it, but then I realized she probably would be wanting to eat some candy, too, and she didn't really need a Frosty AND candy so I was able to talk her out of the Frosty.
For dinner *I* had a slice of cheese & prosciutto quiche from Fresh Market, YUM I love that stuff, with some chardonnay. Tucked A into bed, Read HP with E for an hour or so, and just tucked him into bed! I'm about to tuck myself in, what are the chances that I'll finally have my full night's sleep tonight?!
Saturday, 18 October 2008
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My message boards have been letting me down lately! A couple of them are just realllly slow. One of them is full of political snarkiness and it makes me not want to post there. There are a few more that are OK but I pretty much just read them and am not really "involved." I found a new spot called Twittermoms that I really like, though. The format is soo intuitive and easy to navigate and it is kind of a hybrid of a blog, message board, and facebook. I think that is where I will be spending most of my online time -- at least until someone does something that irrates me, HA!
Also in the meantime I have decided to try to post my daily ramblings here instead of on the various boards. I know, I have said that before.
Anyhoo, today was ... interesting?! This morning was awful. I was up til midnight last night watching Harry Potter 2 with E. Then I needed to be at Mom & Dad's by 8:30 AM so that Dad could go to a caregiver class. Mom was asleep when I got there and when she got up she did not look real happy to see me. I got the feeling she wasn't sure who I was. She did let me fix her breakfast, and ate it. It was a quiet and strange morning.
This afternoon we all went to a special symphony concert geared for children. It started with an "Instrument Petting Zoo" where the musicians let the children try out their instruments. A loved that. Then there was an hour long concert. A magician performed during 3 of the numbers and then during the music from "Lord of the Rings" and "Harry Potter" they showed stills from the movie on a screen. We all loved it.
This afternoon I took a nap. I think I really needed it.
Evening has been quiet. I should have been tidying up and doing dishes but I've been messing around on the computer, naughty me.
What I'm Loving Right Now:
Twittermoms - http://www.twittermoms.com
Sweaters from Target - I've got 2 from last year and have bought 3 more this year, wore one today. They are cute, comfy, lightweight, look nice, price is right!
I had seen a black and grey argyle sweater in the J. Crew catalog that I wanted to get for R, well I found a very similar one at Banana Republic for half the price, yay! They even had matching socks!
He wore the sweater AND the socks today, and looked Good!!Netflix - finished watching both the 6 Feet Under series and The Sopranos series this week!
Dos Lomos - new wine we tried this week. Chardonnay & Malbec. Good price & a cool bottle.
I baked my first apple pie this week! It was much easier than I had expected - and tasted great!
Sunday, 20 July 2008
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I noticed a Xanga question, "Are you happy with your baby's sex," and I have to answer, YES, both times! First of all, I don't think you should have a baby because you "want a boy" or you "want a girl," but because you want a child. With that being my mindset, both times I was thrilled to have a child, regardless of the sex. The first time I did lean towards having a boy, just knowing the "teen angst" I went through as a girl and wanting to spare my child that! Then I did have a boy. He was so amazing that second time around, at first I kind of felt like I wanted another boy. However, the more I thought about it the more I realized that just b/c the child was a boy would not automatically make him "just like" E. Also, I felt like if the children were different sexes, they might be less competitive and get along a little better. So, second time around I was leaning toward a girl.
Now, on to today! Having a relaxing if rather unproductive weekend. Friday night we had a Family Fun Night Out that was a blast! Were planning to go to a movie and grab something to eat on the way, I saw a sign that said that the new "Five Guys Burgers & Fries" was open so we went there and we just loved it. Then we saw "College Road Trip." We all laughed so hard at it! Very enjoyable.
Yesterday I slept in, played on the computer, took a nap in the afternoon, and we went to Macaroni Grill for dinner with J&B, Mom & Dad, had a nice time. I saw that "Saw II" was going to be on TV. I saw "Saw" one night when it was on and was glad to see it on TV since I figured it was not as gory as it would have been otherwise, so I figured this would be a good way to see Saw II and of course was curious to see how it compared to the first one. During commercial breaks I graded E's math workbook, played Webkinz, and proofread my Yearbook printout.
This afternoon I will work on the Yearbook a bit on the computer and then finish up tonight. Hoping to print out the rest of it tomorrow and then I'll pretty much have the final page total so i can get my final quotes. Then it's just a matter of making the changes from the proofing, getting the thing printed, and getting it distributed. Of course the best part will be once it is distributed but once I get that first proof off to the printer I will be ready to do handsprings. It is hard for me to get anything else done b/c when I'm NOT working on it, I feel like I shouldn't be doing anything else

Church family picnic this afternoon. It's gonna be hot but we'll be in the shade so I hope that helps. There will be a cookout, games, and vespers.
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